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What Do I Do If I Suspect or Have Proof My Ex is Putting My Child at Risk?

Alexander J. King

If you suspect or have proof that your ex-partner is putting your child at risk, it's crucial to take action promptly to ensure your child's safety and well-being.

Here are the steps you should consider:

Document Everything: Keep a detailed record of any incidents or behaviors that concern you. Include dates, times, and descriptions of what happened. This documentation will be important if you need to take legal action or involve authorities.
Assess the Risk: Evaluate the seriousness of the situation. If you believe your child is in immediate danger (physical or emotional), contact emergency services (police, child protective services) right away.
Consult with a Lawyer: Seek legal advice from a family law attorney who specializes in child custody and protection. They can provide guidance on your rights and the legal steps you can take.
Talk to Your Ex-Partner: If it's safe and appropriate to do so, discuss your concerns with your ex-partner calmly and rationally. Sometimes, misunderstandings or lack of awareness can contribute to risky situations.
Involve Child Protective Services (CPS): If you believe your child is at risk of harm, contact CPS in your area. They can investigate allegations of abuse or neglect and take appropriate action to protect your child.
Seek a Custody Modification: If you have a custody agreement in place, you may need to file for a modification if the current arrangement is putting your child at risk. Your lawyer can help you navigate this process.
Gather Evidence: Provide any evidence you have gathered to support your concerns to the appropriate authorities or your lawyer. This might include witness statements, photos, medical records, or other documentation.
Consider Mediation: In some cases, mediation with a trained professional may help resolve conflicts and improve communication between you and your ex-partner regarding your child's safety.
Prioritize Your Child's Well-being: Throughout this process, keep your child's best interests at the forefront. Ensure they have a safe environment and emotional support during what can be a difficult time.
Follow Legal Advice: Listen to the guidance provided by your lawyer and follow any court orders or legal requirements carefully.

Dealing with concerns about your child's safety is a serious matter, and it's important to approach it methodically and with the support of appropriate professionals.

Look no further than King & Rowe Attorneys at Law. Our experienced attorneys will work tirelessly to ensure your rights are protected and help you achieve the best possible outcome.